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abandonment, the wounds of Lise Bourdeau's soul, emotional dependence, need for recognition, need to feel loved

CHARACTERISTICS OF ABANDONMENT WOUND   (Mask of the Dependent)

BIRTH OF THE ABANDONMENT WOUND

Abandonment injury is rooted in early life experiences, often in childhood, when the child feels a lack of presence, attention, or affection from a parent or significant attachment figure.

  • The parent of the opposite sex is left to the other parent to decide

  • Lack of communication with the parent of the opposite sex

  • Does not feel emotionally nourished enough

  • Does not feel accepted within close family

Characteristics of the dependent:

  • Depends on others, constantly seeks their support, their approval

  • Easily becomes a “victim” of others, events, circumstances

  • Seeks to attract attention through success

  • Tendency to dramatize easily

  • Lives through ups and downs

  • Doesn't accept being told "no"

  • Ask for advice

  • Prefers to be guided

  • Seeks the presence and recognition of others

  • Main fear: loneliness

Physical characteristics of the dependent:

  • Body lacking tone

  • Under or over developed muscular system

  • Big sad eyes

  • Quiet voice

  • When he was a child: sick, puny or weak

  • Respiratory problems, Allergies, Asthma, Sleep apnea

  • May be prone to Myopia

  • Violent reactions, may be bloody

  • Nervous, melancholic or even depressed

Our support techniques will allow you to:

  • To identify your blockages.
  • To discover and understand how to make changes in your behavior.
  • To understand how limiting perceptions and emotions are established.
  • To find the keys to improving your quality of life.
  • To modify limiting thought patterns.
  • To eliminate your inappropriate behavior and relationship with food.

Your behaviors and limitations are only expressions of your internal concerns.
Identify your Enneagram profile and your emotional wounds to be able to move forward.

Votre problématique est tout autre et vous souhaitez réaliser un changement dans vos comportements limitants ou modifier la perception et le ressenti de vos émotions alors cliquez sur mes besoins.

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