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THE WOUND OF BETRAYAL

Betrayal, The Mask of the Controller, the five emotional wounds according to Lise Bourdeau, feeling betrayed, having been betrayed, betrayal wound

This wound can leave deep emotional scars, which can have consequences on your behaviors. The greater your emotional wound, the more your profile will move toward disintegration (see the Enneagram test).

In this case, you will develop limiting attitudes and your sensations as well as your emotions will be exacerbated. Individuals with a high level of this wound exhibit:

The mask of the controller

BIRTH OF THE REJECTION WOUND

The rejection wound takes root in early life experiences, often during childhood, when the child perceives exclusion, emotional unworthiness, or abandonment by a parent or key attachment figure. The child may feel fundamentally unlovable when their needs for acceptance, belonging or validation are dismissed or ignored by those they depended on. It can also occur when the child senses they have been excluded, judged, or left out by someone they trusted. They will often feel rejected, as if their very worth has been denied and their emotional safety compromised.

CHARACTERISTICS OF THE CONTROLLER:

  • Frequently feels betrayed or disappointed by those they trust.

  • Constantly seeks loyalty and fidelity from others.

  • Fears deception, manipulation or abandonment.

  • Struggles to trust and often doubts others’ intentions.

  • Tends to protect themselves emotionally, sometimes remaining distant or closed off.

  • Finds it difficult to express anger or frustration in response to perceived betrayal.

  • Seeks to control others to avoid any situation of vulnerability.

  • Harbors an intense fear of being betrayed, abandoned or disappointed.

By choosing to engage in guided support, you will liberate yourself from the emotional trauma imprints associated with this wound and rediscover a deeper sense of inner safety. We will assist you in understanding that it is not the act of betrayal itself, but rather the cascade of emotional and sensory charges it triggers, that constitutes the real disturbance. We will guide you through the transformational process of reframing the limiting beliefs anchored in this wound and accompany you in deconstructing negative, self-sabotaging thought patterns.

You will learn to access and anchor a resourceful state in which you perceive yourself as worthy of support and to cultivate robust self-esteem, thereby rebuilding a strong, confident self-image. Through trance-induction protocols and guided visualization, you will connect with your deep essence, anchor a protective safety bubble around yourself, and foster a nurturing, compassionate rapport with your inner self. You will integrate self-coaching strategies to provide yourself with the emotional support you need, reinforce your inner confidence anchor, and generate a lasting sense of emotional stability.

You will be guided through pattern‐interruption and strategic reframing to recognize and transcend the maladaptive behavioural patterns and emotional triggers anchored in this wound. You will learn to establish authentic, secure rapport with others, to articulate your needs with assertive precision, and to install empowering boundaries that foster truly flourishing relationships. By choosing the Hyp’Expertises Clinic, you will benefit from bespoke hypno‐coaching support. We will collaborate to map your unique experiences, uncover the structure of your fears, and co‐design tailored interventions that honour your specific needs.

Through individualized hypno-coaching sessions, you will receive bespoke support, tailored techniques, and empowering tools designed to facilitate your healing journey, strengthen your emotional safety anchor, and enable you to thrive in your relationships. Don’t allow any limiting patterns to impede your happiness and personal fulfillment.

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Our support techniques will allow you to:

  • To identify your blocks.
    To uncover and understand how to implement shifts in your behavioural patterns.
    To comprehend how limiting perceptions and emotional states become anchored.
    To find the keys to enhancing your quality of life.
    To reframe and transform your limiting thought patterns.
    To dissolve maladaptive behaviours and disentangle from the Betrayal Wound.

Your behaviors and limitations are merely the expression of your internal concerns.
Identify your Enneagram profile and your emotional wounds in order to move forward.

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